On Being Real

On being real ...

On being a real person ...

On knowing who I am ... really ... especially if I appear to be an adult person. “Appear” is the key word in that phrase.

Does this have meaning for me?

Does this mean I have Free Will?

The real question being: Is That True? ...

To have Free Will means I have the freedom to make life choices ... Now ask yourself, “Is that true for you?”

Do you actually have Freedom of Choice?

Or is it true that I am carrying The Old Scripts I learned ... and learned by some of us before we made it to kindergarten; those scripts that describe how it is that I think I am, supporting old family roles just because I can. So is that Habit or Free Will/Freedom of Choice?

So, Are You Hooked Into The Melodrama Of “Your Terrible Dailyness?”

If that is The Way Of Things for you ... is that Free Will or Freedom of Choice? ... or is that your choice of anger, jealousy ... guilt and or resentment?

Is that what you really want to choose?

Is that the kind of life you want to have?

But is it the life style you are supporting?

Just because we say we don’t want it, doesn’t mean we don’t support it. We are scripted ... and that is the problem: The Script. To change, we need to act our way into a new way of thinking ... not ... think our way into a new way of acting.


Different is a scary place ... totally unfamiliar, that’s why it’s called different, but it is only unfamiliar for a short period of time.


When true Freedom of Choice is present in our life, the only choice you or I have is how to make happy a destination. And to do so at no one else’s expense ... That is God’s only desire for us: To Be Happy.


When you are no longer lost in the tangle of your own scripting, then Freedom of Choice is your decision. By looking at all the things or people or memories that you clutch onto just to maintain your identity of you for you; then quietly letting go of those beliefs. Those things that keep you from being in that place where Free Will and Freedom of Choice is your real option ...


Freedom of Choice is responsive not reactive.

It Is The
Best Gift God Gave You.
Now Do Something With It!