By understanding the drives for SURVIVAL, POWER,
LOVE, BELONGING, FREEDOM, and FUN in people, we become more conscious of
the need for our world to be a Quality World of our choosing.
The Eleven Axioms of Choice Theory
1. The only person whose behaviour we can control
is our own.
2. All we can give another person is information
3. All long-lasting psychological problems are
relationship problems.
4. The problem relationship is always part of our
present life.
5. What happened in the past has everything to do
with what we are today, but we can only satisfy our basic needs right now and
plan to continue satisfying them in the future.
6. We can only satisfy our needs by satisfying
the pictures in our Quality World.
7. All we do is “behave”.
8. All Behaviours are Total Behaviours and
are made up of four components: Acting, Thinking, Feeling and Physiology.
9. All TOTAL Behaviours are chosen, but we
only have direct control over the acting and thinking components.
10. We can only control our feeling and
physiology indirectly through how we choose to act and think.
11. All TOTAL Behaviour is designated by
verbs and named by the part that is the most recognizable.
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