Dragging Home The Invisible Bone
The expression of any form of creativity opens the
closets and the dustbins of the mind and begins the process of airing out the
cobwebs. The process of being creative
seems to be the process that as an aside brings healing. It does not seem to
matter what is being created just that the process of creation seems to hold
part of the secret of healing. Perhaps
it is the deeper sense of being connected to a part of you that is connected to
all that is, or perhaps it is just you getting past how you think for a short
space in time.
There are certain truths that apply to all situations and
one important one is; that before a wound can heal it must be seen. It needs to
be exposed to the light of day. The act
of exposing the wound to air and light of day is often as not a function of the
inner drive of the creative soul trying to shed itself of something it never
wanted nor was intended to have.
Why, because for most of us, these deep seated inner
processes are bound up by shame, a shame that was acquired early on in life
when no one noticed us or our efforts or our own particular expressions of
creativity. They noticed what we did not
do, not what we did. Our parents, our
peers and our teachers became our prime sense of shame. Just think back and I am sure that you, just
like me, can find a significant shaming event that slowed or stopped your
creative energies.
Know this:
the soul does not want the burden of the shame, but the ego is afraid of the
pain that may be involved in processing the shame. Second:
it can be counter-productive to force things into our way of doing things
against these deep-seated inner processes of shame. Third:
when you are depending on just you and just your resources for guidance through
all this, know this: you are in serious trouble.
Round Pegs[1]
Square Holes
Larger mallets